We often speak about correspondences between involved persons that brought some negative happenings – and when reversed or consecrated – the result can be changed. There are “humble” many who saw correspondence even in twin tower blast and corona.

The common mistakes we make is – seeing direct correspondence. Few days back somebody asked  – I never spit, but why constantly some body is spiting near bike whenever I stop in signal. 

Not going into the details on changing big things by seeing correspondence, I am limiting myself to some common situations we face by taking a analogy of a doctor.

• If any patient with a disease comes to a doctor, it does not mean that he will also have that disease. Patient is coming for cure.  If we go to Sri Karmayogi, it does not mean that He has that correspondence.  We are going there for cure.  Or as a higher version, He can see the trait in His nature and try to remove it, which is removed from entire humanity, which is meant for extraordinary souls. (As once, a head of false hood said to Mother – to remove traces of sexual discrimination   so that he can let Mother to enter the world of Prosperity). If anybody shows a disloyalty to me, it does not necessarily mean that I am disloyal at the same level as I can confidently say that after all analysis that I am not like that wherever I worked. We can see that in the next plane on loyalty to Sri Karmayogi or Mother as given in Point 4.

• When a patient comes for cure with all the queries half-baked from web searches and questions doctor and if it anyway touches his emotions like irritation or anger – Sri Karmayogi says this as the next plane is calling us. Taking correspondence, the doctor has to upgrade his knowledge till latest in his field.  I know many doctors who never upgrade and still satisfied with what they had ten years back.  Many don’t even meet Medical Reps. Their knowledge upgradation is only based on the seminars attended which is actually a “gift” party.  This progress gives vertical growth which makes patients do not show such attitude to him again.

• If patient’s behaviour touches the deep emotion, then next plane is – other man point of view, understanding the patient more, goodwill for his recovery and equality in emotions.  This brings patients who ask no questions.  Sri Karmayogi gives an example of a doctor “Gurusamy” in Cuddalore who has two big lines every day -paid and free.  He never speaks to them. He just sees and write prescription and never anybody ask questions to Him.  His goodwill and knowledge are so strong.  Sri Karmayogi says this as horizontal development in proportion to vertical development.

• Appa gives another way: seeing the same correspondence with Mother.  If patient don’t have faith in doctor that doctor knows more than the patient, then why at all he is going to doctor.  We can see the same as our correspondence with Mother.  We don’t have faith in Her. We always question or doubt Her ability or insisting Her to do it in our way.  I have seen many a times others behaviour with me is equal to my behaviour with Mother.

There is another way to see this-To see which one energised the opponent.

• If others behave in a crooked way or that relates anything to his mind, it is our corresponding misunderstanding or ignorance in mind pertaining to that person or situation, that energise him in that area to behave that way.

• If anyone reacts emotionally and if we want to see what in us energised – it is our undeserving vital desires and expectations to enjoy the result without doing our part properly in it.

• If disarray and messiness in surface level of others needs some correspondence, it will be in our inertia in other area, which energise him, sometimes even cleaning email deleting unnecessary mails and spams will change the situation.

Seeing correspondence is for our progress, irrespective of whether other person is changing or not, many a times I have seen such person won’t come to us again.